What is really important?

When one enters this world, what matters the most to one? Family, love, friendship. No, food! but as our age progresses we do come to realize that there are more important things in this world! Is it family, is it love? No, the answer is money. Its not even yourself (The money, not you are the object of desire. So why , why does it happen that we cannot just be happy with life as it is. But then Why do we cry over love lost and persons gone? I have gone through this phase recently with a person i loved passing away. She was wonderful, more loving to me than any other. And not just to me , to everyone. Her son, her daughter, my cousins, my parents , every person she came in contact wirhSo nice, humble and yet so strong. I have been feeling sad for the past some time but i am out of it now. I can write again.But i am in a transient phase of change. I have realised lots of things though which going through this you all will.

First of all, you will realise that love you receive from your parents, your grandparents, brothers , sisters , friends and cousins and that smiling lady who helped you when you didn't even know her, is the greatest thing in all world to receive. Yes, even my egocentric self is dying realizing that. Love is the greatest gift of them all and takes a multitude of forms, parental, puppy, friendship and helping out. But love is the central constituent.

Second thing i realised is that i want to be like her, not only because i love her or that she loved me even more, but that love needs to be spread. I will try my best to be patient, loving ,caring and humble , not only towards the ones i know but towards everyone i see. I want to change and change for good. Help me God!